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Saturday, 27 September 2008
Paul Newman

The DOG just called me to break the news.

"Paul Newman died."

I rarely cry when a celebrity dies — I think Audrey Hepburn and Gregory Peck were the exceptions — but this news just broke my heart. Tears were spontaneous and immediate.

I met Paul Newman a few years ago in the lobby of a theater during intermission of a show that I attended with my friend Tedd as part of an assignment for one of our classes at Neighborhood Playhouse. At some point during the show, one of our classmates, seated behind us, had leaned forward and whispered that he thought he saw Paul Newman in the audience. Tedd and I had scanned the not-so-large audience, seen no one even remotely Paul Newman-esque, and scoffed at our friend's apparent lack of visual acuity.

So when we were milling around during intermission and actually saw Paul Newman doing the same, we silently squealed, not wanting to act uncool in front of this guy who was the embodiment of Cool. I was struck by how compact, fit, quiet, unassuming, and handsome he was, and how incredibly blue his eyes were. And how absolutely humble and gentle and soft-spoken he was when we met.

A classmate was working the concession stand, which was selling Newman snacks, and when I said to her, before meeting him, "Isn't he devastating?" she asked who I was talking about.

"Paul Newman!" I said.

"Oh, yes!" she said, indicating the array she had been ringing up that night.

"No, I mean over there," I said, indicating the man in the navy blue sweater and jeans, who was standing around talking quietly to a few admirers, mixed in with everyone else, not making a fuss over himself.

"Paul Newman?" she shrieked, her Turkish accent making the name sound kind of cartoonish. "Paul NEWMAN? Paul NEWMAN?"

"Yes! Yes!" I said.

"Oh! I just sold him some of his own stuff!" she said. "I can't believe I just made him pay for his own stuff!"

I was enchanted that he paid for his own stuff.

I also met his wife, the inimitable Joanne Woodward, and was enchanted by her as well, charmed beyond belief by her gracious attitude. She held both of my hands as she spoke with me for quite some time. She laughed with me about the Neighborhood Playhouse and the fact that the same pianist that accompanied ballet class was still playing there. I told her the actual theater in the school was my favorite part of the place, and she told me that she and her husband had given them the seats that I found so comfortable and fabulous because they were old.

When my friend and I left the theater after the show, we chatted a bit about what we had just seen onstage and how thrilled we were to be living in New York. Then we stopped as we walked down Broadway, turned to each other, widened our eyes in unison, waited a beat, and then took hold of each other's arms and shouted, "Oh my god! We just met Paul Newman! We just met Joanne Woodward! Oh my god! Paul Newman! Joanne Woodward!" and for some reason started leaping down Broadway laughing like hyenas.

It was one of the highlights of my experience of living here then and will be one of the highlights of my experience living here always. (Of course, meeting his dog was also a highlight as well.)

Rest in peace, you beautiful, mesmerizing, remarkable man. The world has lost one of its truly great and genuine human beings.

fresh-baked at 10:44 AM
Comments

Three of my favorite movies star Paul Newman: The Sting, Butch Cassidy and the Sundance Kid and The Hustler.

There was an easy-going confidence he just exuded on-screen. It was impossible not to like him, simply by his performances--it's a trait rarely seen, and even rarer still in today's crop of actors.

Best of all, reading your reminiscence confirms that he was as likable in person as he was in film. Thank you for that.

D

Offered by: Dave on October 18, 2008 5:06 AM

Such a gifted actor and humanitarian. Hearing that he passed away was one of those news pieces you sorta didn't want to believe was real.

Luckilly, we still have his films to carry on his legacy, his talent, and that smile.

The obvious questions is -- which of his films is your favorite? But whenever I think of it I can never really narrow it down to just one.

Right now, Butch Cassidy and the Sundance kid has a narrow lead over Slap Shot, but if you check back in an hour Cool Hand Luke will probably come storming back with a vengeance.

Offered by: Dan on October 3, 2008 10:10 AM

It is amazing how touched people have been by Newman's death. He was a very different kind of star.

Offered by: Eric on October 1, 2008 7:46 AM

Thank you so much for sharing such a fabulous story!

As a child of divorce in the 70s, I remember how impressed I was he was that he was so content in his marriage to Joanne..."why go out for hamburgers when I have steak at home?"

I remember my mom and her friends being absolutely gaga over him (and Robert Redford, of course!) And as a teen, I found him incredibly handsome and seemingly genuine. As I got older, I learned more about this amazing human being and he became even more godlike in my eyes. What an amazing life he led.

In the 90s, my boss used to race cars and met him a couple of times and mentioned that he had discussed some business venture with him. I used to beg the Universe to send Paul to our offices so I could finally meet this remarkable man. Sadly, it never happened.

Rest in peace, Mr. Newman. You will be missed.

Offered by: Christine on September 30, 2008 12:09 PM

Thank you for writing this, Jodi. Newman was my favorite actor. I'd just watched "The Hustler" with a friend (for the 10th time) the night before I heard the news. Sadly ironic.

Offered by: Vendela on September 30, 2008 12:29 AM

I haven't seen enough Paul Newman movies. I should fix that. I love the way that he and Joanne stayed together, and I love what he did with his life.

Offered by: Scott on September 29, 2008 9:44 AM

I thought him a great actor, but an even greater man. His Hole in the Wall Gang Camp brought (and still brings) laughter and normalcy to kids and their families, those most in need of a little joy.

Offered by: Da Goddess on September 27, 2008 7:29 PM

He was one of my favorite actors. There's no one out there today who even comes close. They don't make 'em like they used to! You're so lucky to have met him.... I don't think I would've been able to hide my excitement if I met him. :)

Offered by: Amanda on September 27, 2008 1:59 PM

Thank you for sharing another one of your experiences, Jodi.

Offered by: don on September 27, 2008 12:40 PM